"There are times I want him to go slowly, with love and affection. And other times I want it fast, hard, deep, and with aggression! I mean, just F*CK ME!"
"I want a combination of in-and-out with a clockwise rotation. It accesses all of me, and the top of his pelvis brushes my clit on the upwards motion."
"I want his hands moving. I want him to stay touching and feeling me as he is inside me."
Over 80% of respondents said that they experienced many men as oftentimes having one speed—fast—with several mentions of "BAM-BAM-BAM-BAMBAMBAM!" (Yes, seriously.) A variety of motions, types of caresses/touches (both where it happens, as well as the pressure initiated), hands, tongue and mouth staying engaged, and to be more adventurous with body position.
Bottom line: Women's bodies are fun to explore. Experiment and try things as she allows. She'll thank you later.