For some women, going down on their man is the worst part of their sex life. For others, it's a way of getting close to the man they love. And men... well... many [most?] men seem to live for it. But what of the common lament from men ("The fastest way to stop a woman from performing oral sex is to marry her!"), and what are the real motivators on both sides of this sexual equation? I asked these questions and received 500+ responses. Anonymity was an option for the women choosing to respond, and nearly all were submitted without any identifying information, so the data is real... and raw.