Courtship is primal. She wants him to pursue, and he needs something to chase. Does that mean a man should put in all the effort to make a first date great? Hardly. She needs to do her part… but he should be leading the process. After interviewing and surveying 1,000 men and women about their first date experiences, here are the most common screw-ups men make...
No matter what the dating sites say, searching for a match online is no better than your average nightclub or meat-market singles bar. And in many ways, it's WAY worse — algorithms that don't actually work, predators posing as house pets, and the ever-increasing need to purchase credits and monthly dues.
Long-term relationships suffer from one main issue: Predictability. For some, predictable can mean security and comfort, and those aren’t bad things. But predictable also brings about routine without variance and more importantly without excitement. For those who haven’t done their own work and have transitioned to seeking/finding their value externally, this is a recipe for disaster. It’s simple math: Predictability, comfort and routine make people forget why they fell in love in the first place.
