Stop what you are doing and go look in the mirror. The person you see is worthy of love. Stop trying to convince yourself otherwise... NO EXCUSES! Too fat, too thin, too out, too in, too busy, too broke, too much trouble, too many assholes, too much baggage, too little time, too much drama, too many bills, too late, too old........ STOP! Just as you are, you are worthy. We are all growing and all works-in-progress. Everyone is a train wreck in their own way. When you see it, others you select will, also. If you don't see it, you need to reframe how you see you.