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10 Tell-Tale Signs That He's Cheating

10 Tell-Tale Signs That He's Cheating

He's acting ... differently, but you just can't put your finger on why. Then, his cell phone rings in in the middle of the night ... and he doesn't have a good explanation. Is he cheating or is he just going through a rough time?We've all heard the "he blames you for cheating" and "his cell phone has a password on it" behaviors of cheating men, but those are the obvious shifts. After interviewing 50 cheating men — and a number of their wives/ex-wives — there are several subtle changes that can take place and that women are usually unaware of until it's too late. 

The Saturday Guy (or: How To Kill A Relationship)

The Saturday Guy (or: How To Kill A Relationship)

When first dating, men usually go above and beyond in their efforts to listen, please, and participate — romantically, physically, and monetarily. However, once they have put in the initial effort and their needs start being met, behavior can change and the effort they’ve been putting in slows. Often, men then start providing the bare minimum required, leaving women wondering what the hell happened, and why he is putting in less and less (as she started putting more into the relationship to compensate). Nowhere is this more glaring than on weekends.

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Why strong, empowered women can't find love

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Why strong, empowered women can't find love

Some men start out being attracted to a strong woman... but then they want to "break" them. My thoughts: Men who look to dominate and break the spirit of strong women are doing so for one reason: A man like this needs to bring a woman down *beneath* his level... so that he can not only be in control... he also doesn't have to face his own insecurities or lacking as a man. It's easier for him to try and blame everything on her instead of looking at himself and what he needs to improve.

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A Birthday Gift for Kanye West: What I wish I knew the day I became a father

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A Birthday Gift for Kanye West: What I wish I knew the day I became a father

Dear Kanye:

Happy Birthday! I hope today is filled with what you want from life. You have a healthy bank account… and while money won’t actually buy happiness, it does help pay for the search.

I’m sure you are receiving a variety of gifts today, but your real gift is but a few weeks away: The gift of fatherhood. I’d like to gift you with something unique; a gift only someone like me can provide: How to survive being the father of a baby girl. There’s not rulebook on parenting, and being the father of a girl comes with a variety of challenges: some good, others that make you want to bash your head into a wall.